It helps create an everlasting link between two people and strengthen their bond.
"It does add a sense of security and belonging," she says.
Have you ever had sex with someone you really, really loved and had an out-of-body, mind-boggling experience?
Or afterward (and during) felt so close to that person you thought you were speaking to their SOUL?
Have you ever had such incredible sex that you momentarily think you might actually melt into the bedspread and ooze into the floor cracks? It was the happy, empowered cry only love sex can provide -- what your mom probably refers to as "making love." It's when you connect with someone on a spiritual level, when the sex is so full of meaning and emotion. Casual sex is fantastic, but love sex only really happens when you're in a relationship with someone you actually love.
I'm a girl who's had plenty of casual lays -- but it wasn't until my current boyfriend that I experienced love sex in all its glory. Orgasms release a slew of neurochemicals into the body that make us feel calm, happy, and procure a sense of intimacy with the person we just slept with.
Without anonymity, you know the reputation, dating history, and most likely the sexual health of all your prospects. In some ways, that helps narrow the field to people you know are reasonably good matches while weeding out those you'd want to escape from five minutes into a date.
In the almost-decade I've lived in the middle of nowhere, I've been hit on. Hundreds of times more than I'd ever been hit on in the city.
I'd never tended bar before, and loved listening to people's stories while pouring them generous shots of clear and bronze liquors; snapping metal caps off Genny Light and Busch bottles; and dutifully scribbling notes in my reporter's journal behind the bar.When you come, the brain floods your system with oxytocin -- the "love hormone" that tricks the body into equating sexual passion with love.When you have emotion-driven sex with someone you actually care about, the endorphins coursing through your body can alter the way you feel about that person, bringing you together in a more profound way.Sex definitely shouldn't be the only thing your relationship is about, but you need it to strengthen that vital sense of attachment. It's really about what works for the two of you as a couple. Get those orgasms and you're on your way to relationship bliss.Weber tells us that love sex acts as a bridge between two people.In cities, you can visit 100 different bars on 100 different nights and not run into any of the same people.